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My way of thinking

By: ellamathew on the 31st October 2009 at 1:25am

Life

 A late passing of someone quite close to me,  made me realise that life is not for sitting, and waiting... life is there for living! People should recognise what they have in their life and grasp hold of that, and if they don't, they will realise that it will slip away, never to be recovered... this is why I grasp things that are good with both hands, but in the same way, if they want to go, i will let them... it is definitely NOT the fact that i do not care for them, ...quite the oppisite!...it is purely the aspect that i have enough faith the people that 'what is meant to be, will be'... Over the past year, I have learnt a huge amount about myself, maybe more than i have learnt in the 25 years that i have been alive. It is the fact of respect to one self.... whatever happens to you, at the end of the day, you only have to answer to yourself, and no one else.... it hurts when people pass away, but there is not a damn thing that you can do!... I prefer thinking about the good times that we shared, rather than sit in a darkened room, and wonder what could have been if he had more time on this world. 

The way that i deal with any negativity, is just to let it go, or accept it...if you can't change it, or can't have any control with it, then why try to do ANYTHING? 

Therefore I suggest a more proactive way of thinking about the 'negatives' in your lives.....JUST GET ON WITH LIVING YOUR LIVE!!...if you think negatively, then, from the rule of attraction, you will attractive negatives!..so why  not think positively?... this does not mean dismissing every negative comment set to you, but think about how you could put all critasism. into a pragmatic situation or thought...seriously... it might make your life a bit better!...always think on the positive!... I live my life by that, and it hasn't treated me bad! 

 

 


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